The Smoking Gay Person (Expanding The Bully)

The Smoking Gay Person..
(Expanding The Bully)
(by Susan James)

I used this title, to get your attention.
For as long as I’ve been doing this…from time to time I get emails from people who do things in
their lives that don’t fit the ‘approval’ meter of either the people in their lives and or whatever
bandwagon society is on at the time.

And they write to me gingerly, to see if I’m ok about things, so that they can feel safe in my
space.

So, I’m gonna give it to you straight.

No matter who you are, or what you do…it is only your business.
My business is to change the room.

I can’t change the room, if I’m judging you, and me, and judging me for judging you. I understand
about judgement and approval and what it ‘really’ is about;  and that is.. it’s a level of dense light
energy. It’s not right or wrong. There is simply a more correct vs incorrect way to get what we
want for our lives. We can choose to stay in it…or not. We can use it to get what we want, or
keep what we want from finding us. It’s our choice.

We can smoke and sleep with whomever and still get what we want, and feel peaceful about it,
if that is what ‘we’ want. If that is what ‘we’ want, and can expand from the loop stealing our
peace. That loop is the bully loop.

I don’t care what you do or don’t do.
I don’t care if you are John Edwards or Tiger Woods.
I do care about you feeling some level of peace and getting what you think you want from the
short time you are on this earth.

If you smoke…..anything..
If you sleep with…….everyone…
I will let you be whomever you want to be, and I honor that at the top of my list.

I understand the bully in you and the bully in others…neither one is really such a bad guy.

I know about those eyes behind your eyes…
They are loving eyes, no matter what others may be thinking, saying or trying to do to you.
They are only doing those things to you..they are only saying those things about you, because
they haven’t found their way yet, and it’s easier to keep their mind on you, instead of themselves.

I know people who have lived, are still living..to almost 100 glorious years of age..and they
still smoke. The downside of that, is that for a part of their lives, they’ve had people around them
who ‘attack’ them for that choice.

There is no need for anyone to live in that kind of loop, simply due to a personal choice.
If you smoke anything…and if you sleep with everyone…and simply need a space to ‘go berserk’
over all the pent up emotion, please know you let it all hang out with me. Just write to me..I’ll
listen..and let you be whomever you want to be..because I know about those eyes behind your
eyes.

Always……
Susan James, Author/Publisher

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Susan James (Writer-Publisher-BookStore Owner) Susan James writes, publishes and  specializes in themes emphasizing personal development and higher manifesting methods.Among the many published forms of James authored works are books, print and digital formats, essays/articles, electronic newsletters, distance learning courses and consulting. Susan writes on expanded views of Personal Development, Business and The Livelihood of Writing.
Author of The Award Winning Manifesting 101 & Beyond, Manifesting 102 & Beyond,  Manifesting Methods for Would Be Millionaires, Manifest Warp Speed, 17 Seconds to Weight Loss, and the novel, The Millionaire Maverick.